Saturday, July 08, 2006

Everyone...

In a sense, the world was created the way it is, and believe it or not, its the most balanced yet perfect world, despite it having problems all over, and it seems that alot of people are infact, dying and so on and so forth. But all of this is part and parcel of life. I'll explain that in a second or so...

In a way, like most movies and lame-ass corny stories state, everything good must have something bad to balance it out. Just like how life must have its ups and downs. I strongly believe that in this world, everyone was created to do something, even if it might be generally evil in the eyes of others, it does make up job opportunities, and in a way, might actually do some good, even if it does alot more harm.

For example, some idiot goes on a rampage, hitting everyone in lets say, a coffee centre. It creates the need for someone to protect them. Poof, jobs created. Security guards, and the police once they detain him. For the people injured, poof, the paramedics are needed. See my point?

After a while, looking everything and a third point of view without bias and anything to cloud your mind might just be better at understanding the world. Trust me, it might be mofe fun than you think, in a way.

Like, litter bugs, which I think we are all familiar with, and a little bit of it is in all of us as well. What if we stopped throwing trash around? Would we still have cleaners and coolies? But also, this leaves one thing : Stereotyping is fucking stupid.

I place strong emphasis in the retardation of stereotyping in a negative way. Sure, stereotyping like lets say, the school jock, the joker, etc is fine. But things like the dumb ones or whatever from those who clean your trash everyday, is just crap. Everyone has a part to play, whether they clean your trash crap for you, or they serve as your maid. Everyone is equally important. I laugh at the stupidity, the blatent stupidity that some adults and a few of us teens place on marking people with such jobs, "stupid".

I believe instead, everyone will soon enough have a job to do, and a place to contribute in the society. Whats wrong about treating everyone fairly? Its not too bad to do. But face it even if your job sucks. You're still helping people in a way, are you not? For us who are still schooling, all we can do, is wait and do our work as students for now.

And yes, thats one thing I'm not exactly doing. I'm too much a follower of fate to actually do any work, but of course, I still do work. I'm not an emotionless savant or a certified psychiatrist. I'm still an average student who's physically unattractive. Just that I see things better for a reason, and I thank God for that gift. I hope everyone benefitted anyway. =/

Oh, I wrote this and sent this out a month ago. Please spread this to those you love, or you think might need this. I did send this out as an SMS a month ago as well.

Life is a thing we all go through, we all enjoy and savour.

Yet, at the same time, hate and loath. Its a journey that involves everyone around you, whether you know them or not.

But sadly, not everyone knows that life is a journey that we are all going through together.

They think they suffer all alone, and they wallow in their pain.

Some were made to lead, some were made to follow, some are pretty, some are not.

Some were made to listen, some, to talk.

Everyone is made out with a little bit of everything, but also a little bit more of something.

So don't be afraid to share, but don't forget to care.

You might just end up with someone you love.

Pass this around at your own free will, you needn't force yourself. =3

Monday, July 03, 2006

As you age...

As you get older, everything doesn't seem the same anymore. You start to think more, understand more, and depending on who you are, your curiousity for such things and emotions might either diminish, or get magnified. But in the end, everyone gets mature, just at different ages and at different gradients...

About a year or two back, I spoke about being happy about the one you love. Oh how innocent I sounded, and how simple it seemed. I remember staying that if someone you love was happier with someone else, it was best to accept it, and be happy for her. I now know the feelings involved in such an occasion. The jealousy, the rejection, the self-affliction. Heck, its not even a pleasent scenario for me anymore. But it proves that every single day, I mature and learn something new. This goes for everyone, and those who successfuly commit suicide, are missing out on many things in life they could have experieneced...

However, this is how it may seem. We do not know what goes on in their heads, exactly how pressuruized they feel. It is true everyone has the same pain threshold, but mentally, that is not exactly true... Depending on how sensitive that person is towards the subject, it could either be devastating, or a minor setback, or even nothing at all. Its amazing how the human mind can control your emotions, and that triggers your hormones... and sometimes, vice versa.

And if there's something everyone can't do, is to unlock the secrets of the opposite gender. Sure, we can get to know their obvious perferences (all straight asexual boys will love naked women for example <_<),>

But with understanding, comes the real part of maturity: How you react to it. That is the final step towards maturity, other than how are you going to take it, like a complete wuss, or like a man. This of course, refers to men. I have no idea how you women would phrase it. =/

The rest, is up to you to figure out. Where's the fun in telling you everything eh? All I can do, is to just slightly clear the mist, and help you understand life a little better. For those reading, thank you, and may you think over this carefully. =3